I feel they don’t understand me anymore. When I tried to remember the good things about him, my memory stuck in this 2 years timeframe. I rarely deal with my own feeling.
- On the other hand, the development of skills is a totally different use of time…
- Most notably the section on relief.
- Thank you for taking the time to comment and to share your perspective!
- Don’t ever let anyone make you think you’re wrong for “feeling” a certain way, especially about death.
- Because of our inherent need as human beings to feel better about our losses, it’s not unusual to feel both better and confused as to why we cry when someone dies.
It just makes me sick to my stomach. I listened to Coast to Coast last night, and three other times during the week, and George Noory has said nothing pertaining to Art Bell. Undoubtedly he hears scuttlebutt. I wonder what he knows that we don’t. It was just tremendously disappointing to hear him talk about his new bride the other night with such preening pride.
You may have imagined a person’s death would make you feel better or resolve some of the feelings you were having. In some cases that’s true, but in some cases it isn’t. You can read more about forgiveness here. If you feel guilty that you’re relieved, happy, or not sad about a death, let’s think through the feelings. What you are relieved or happy about is that you are now safe and no longer fearful.
Hospice Care
Most of all, at some point in the future I hope you can try to find joy in life again. It is the one thing you need to regain if you are to give Ramona’s death any meaning. She would want that for you….to see you live life joyfully and to engage in it with gusto.
I can be my authentic self and am no longer ‘imprisoned’. Through all our married life, you would think we had https://kstennislife.com.pl/maja-sobiech-jan-nowacki-wygrywaja-kortach-nowej-wsi/ it all, but I came home each night to a horrible, horrible man and lived in a House of Horrors. I am so thankful to have read this article and the comments. Not really sure how I will feel when my father-in-law passes.
Dying Without Family
My thoughts and prayer are with you. I’ve been a listener for years. They brought many nights of good mind thought entertainment. Art is a man who brought new door openings and had the guts to do it.
Some people affected by sorrow aren’t able to cry when someone they know and love dies. While crying can be a sign of depression, it can also be a way out of depression. Crying is a normal and natural grief reaction for most people who’ve experienced losing a loved one.
I really felt like I could love him in a way that was more unconditional and not so stuck on old criteria. But there he was just being grumpy with all these people and I thought, I guess this is how he’s always been. Not that he’s only been grumpy, but this is something I remember him doing and being, but I never thought it was a bad thing.
My sister who also had a strained relationship stood by my side. I’m having a hard time being there for my husband who is dealing with the complicated grieving process for a father who was never there. He only met his father less than a handful of times in his life but he had to live with knowing that his father had two other children with two other women as the years went by. Only one of his half-siblings was raised by his father and got to have that relationship. His father passed away this week and the family requested my husband and our family to be at the celebration of life memorial.
I’m so sorry for your loss to all of you wonderful people with big open hearts whom lost loved ones. I felt like he was replacing my daughter and I with another family. He still has little time for her, but is very much in to his new family. My heart aches mostly for my daughter who was only 12 at the time and very much wants a relationship with her dad. But I remain very close to my mom, my mom’s mom (rip grandpa!) , and my sisters. I do not for a minute feel bad I don’t even think about how my uncles and grandma (dad’s mom) is doing.