Within this episode, Dita and you may Dajana means the brand new questionable subject of matchmaking/marrying outside the Albanian people
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Inside event, Dita and Dajana method new controversial topic of relationship/marrying beyond your Albanian society
Contained in this very asked matter, Dita and you can Dajana means the topic away from both things of views that’s: the comfort and familiarity off dating/marrying for the people, while the acceptance and beautiful extension of one’s people that is due to relationship/marrying away from it. It read out loud a message sent away from a beneficial listener exactly who shares the girl tale out of matchmaking a beneficial Latino male for the secret for five age and exactly how it offers inspired the relationships previously, and you may wants ideas on dealing with it unavoidable situation together nearest and dearest due to the fact she is happy to features a premier-peak connection with him later on. Dita and Dajana show their particular relationship knowledge of low-Albanian males and describe why it themselves avoid off relationship Albanian people. They talk about the pro’s and you can con’s that are included with this. It dissect the taboo topic by the skills as to why Albanians getting it insane pressure yet/wed within society, along with issue this for the-going and you may outdated foregone conclusion from the concentrating on the wonder that accompany acquiring the versatility up to now/marry Whom you Love without the need to deal with one consequences eg as actually shunned, singled-away, talked about or-worst circumstances scenario- are “disowned”. As to the reasons can not we undertake everybody regardless of battle, faith, gender, and you may people and begin to choose just who i’ve a high-level union which have just about how it love and you may get rid of united states? Why is it so hard for Albanians to grasp the notion one to “outsiders” are only as desperate to show the fresh new Albanian community and you can pamper by themselves in it? Worries that Albanians features off “losing” its culture/living considering the area broadening their horizons only manifests new anxiety to your fact of the rejecting people that create plan to go out/get married beyond your society. Exactly how will they be supposed to share the society due to their the fresh-receive spouse/loved ones for individuals who pass up them just before they’re able to beginning to perform so? As to the reasons can not Albanians have fun with their rigid religion regarding a rigorous-knit household members moral and implement you to definitely to the people who date/get married outside their people so you can allowed all of them with open arms and permit those who commonly Albanian 
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